I bet that your answer is DEFINITE YES!
From preparing your place and proper warm-up methods to four different finger and hand techniques that you can apply easily, I will explain everything you need to know about how girls cum!
STAY with me because you will MASTER this art today!
TIP #1 – PREPARE YOUR PLACE & WARM HER UP
The first part of this how to guide is REALLY crucial. You need to set the mood correctly if you want to make her climax really hard. Firstly, you need to ease her mind from any possible distractions and let her focus just on the pleasure she will receive.
Therefore, you should prepare yourself and your place before she arrives!
Women have very developed senses, and she will notice everything that is out of its proper place. Therefore, you should always tidy your place up before she arrives.
Focus on smell.
If everything is clean and shiny, you can add something that will make your place smell nice.
Dim the lights.
Turn the soft lighting on to make her feel comfortable and relaxed.
Prepare a great playlist of songs that will set the tone for sex later.
Trim your fingernails.
This point is vital. To make the technique described in points 3 and 4 (see below) work, you have to trim your nails and file any sharp edges.
Warm her up.
Now you can shift your focus on warming her up through proper foreplay techniques. All you have to do is to:
- Give her sensual massage (every woman loves it and feels great after it)
- Whisper in her ear (or go directly for a dirty talk if she likes it)
- Kiss her passionately (just do not go for oral sex yet)
- Lead and dominate her through your foreplay
- Focus your efforts on all her erogenous zones (there are 13 sensitive areas on her body)
All these small preparations (although not directly connected to sex) will increase your chances of making her cum.
TIP #2 – RELAXED POSITION IS KEY TO SUCCESS
Before you start, let her go to the bathroom to empty her bladder. Doing this will enhance the feeling of relaxation later. You can also show her this guide so she will know what’s going to happen in the next few minutes.
If you want to make your girl achieve vaginal orgasm, you need to make her relax and dispel any mental blocks and self-image issues she may have.
Therefore, you need to pay extra attention to the foreplay you are giving her.
This will put her in a better mood for sex, and may even make her feel more special to you. After you warm her up, you need to put her body in a correct position.
Here are some instructions for you to follow:
- Make her lie on her back on something comfortable (ideally bed)
- Spread her knees
- Place a pillow just under her bottom
This position should be very comfortable for her while it will enable you a much better access to her g-spot and clitoris at the same time.
You can get a towel and place it under her ass and in front of her to catch any bodily fluids that will come out her. However, some women may feel under pressure thanks to this so I recommend not to use the towel for the first time.
Guys, without lubing everything up with a high-quality lubricant you are destined to fail. It can be either a water-based or oil-based lube.
However, the oil-based damages latex condoms so use with care if you want to have sex.
You need to apply it not only on her clit, vulva, and inside of her vagina but on your fingers and your palm as well. Once everything is “wet” enough, you should start working on her g-spot.
You should try the following steps:
- Use oral sex to stimulate her clitoris for a couple of minutes
- Insert your middle finger inside her with your palm facing up (trust me one finger is enough)
- Rub her front vaginal wall (around two inches deep)
- After some efforts try a “come here” motion for a couple minutes
- Add your ring finger and try various other techniques of stimulation (experiment with circular motions and different levels of pressure)
- Now, her g-spot should be very noticeable (spongy, almond-shaped, circular area that is usually located 2 inches deep inside her)
- Her frontal wall should be much more swollen due to the build-up of liquids inside her Skenes glands around her urethra
- After 10-15 minutes her (Gräfenberg) g-spot should be ballooning inside of her
If you can notice all of the signs mentioned in steps 6 to 8 while she starts to feel a soft urge to pee, you are on the right track.
It means that she is getting ready for the final techniques that will make her release all that buildup liquid inside her.
TIP #4 – POWERFUL TECHNIQUES YOU NEED TO MASTER
Hey, guys! I am going to show you few incredibly powerful techniques you can use to make almost every woman tremble from pleasure. All you will need are your own hands, a lot of lube, and some practice.
I have collected these from around the web, and lots of people have used these with success. Just keep in mind that combined vaginal and clitoral stimulation works the best.
I really love this method (I have discovered it on the “PUA Training” website) and is one of the best techniques I know for making her squirt! Although it’s simple, it requires a lot of practice and a steady, strong hand.
Once her g-spot is ready, you need to follow this unique technique of clitoral and vaginal stimulation. It’s really easy and all you need to do is following:
- Lube all your fingers and your palm properly (this is crucial) on the hand you will be using if you have not done so yet (see tip no. 3 above)
- Insert your middle and ring fingers inside her
- With you fingers inside, you need to change the position of your lubricated palm
- You should rest it on her clit while “cupping” it completely (the best way to achieve this is to kneel beside her)
- Once your palm is in place, you should start to play with her g-spot with your fingers
- Start by making the “come here” stroking motion (mentioned in the tip #3 above)
- After she is enjoying herself you can even tap on this place or use circular motions all around it
- Once you can see that she is moaning from pleasure, you need to lock your hand and wrist in the hook position (your fingers inside her pussy should point directly to her G-spot on the front vaginal wall and your palm will be resting of her clit)
- Then, start moving your whole hand up and down while hitting her G-spot with your fingertips and stimulating her clitoris with your lubricated palm at the same time
- Then start to speed up this movement gradually and increase the pressure of your fingers
- Go with a maximum speed that allows you to keep a steady and rhythmical movement
You need to maintain steady rhythm and pace at all costs. Trust me that your hand will be in a serious pain after few minutes but you need to continue until she climaxes.
If you do everything as directed, she should not be able to hold it anymore. Your hand and bed sheets should become thoroughly wet while her body should shake from the best type of pleasure a woman can experience in her life.
By pressing into her pubic bone with your other hand will allow you a firmer grip and extra pressure.
This technique is similar to the one above, but there is a slight variation in the way you will stimulate her. Here is what you need to do:
- Give her clit a few minutes of oral pleasure
- Lube up your middle and ring finger on your dominant hand
- Insert them into her pussy
- Let your index finger and your pinky to rest on sides of her vulva
- Go up with your middle and ring fingers inside her
- Start stroking her front vaginal wall (in the direction of her belly)
- Do a “come here” motion with your fingers inside her
- You need to locate her G-spot and start rubbing it
- Go for slow and soft strokes in the beginning
- Increase your pace and pressure gradually
If you have troubles locating her g-spot you can use your second hand and place it on her lower belly (right above her pubic bone). Then apply a firm pressure (make sure she is always comfortable with it) to make her G-spot more noticeable inside her vagina.
I have stumbled upon this technique while browsing the “PUA Training” website and I immediately knew that it deserves a place on this list.
The third technique I want to share with you that is effective for making her squirt is called Intense Stroking. All you need to do is to follow these simple steps:
- Give her head for a few minutes
- Lube up your index finger on your main hand
- Insert it inside her pussy
- Go up with it (in the direction of her belly)
- Start rubbing the front wall of her pussy to locate her G-spot
- Once you find it, you need to stroke it forward and backward
- Then you can hit it directly and stimulate all around it with circular motions (you will need to apply firm pressure)
- Start with slow strokes and gradually increase your pace and pressure
- You need to find the right balance between your pace and pressure (see how her body reacts to it)
- Once she is really enjoying herself you need to add your middle finger
- Continue as before (using two fingers instead of one) until she climaxes
You need to keep a steady rhythm if you want to see her achieve orgasm that ends with a lot of bodily fluids all around your bedsheets.
I personally prefer my main hand (I am left-handed) for stimulation of her G-Spot and the other one on her clit. Trust me that even if she will not squirt for the first time, she will love this technique.
I have found this technique on the internet and I simply love it. You will need both hands and a lot of lube to give her maximum pleasure with each and every touch.
Just follow these steps:
- Lube up both your hands well (including all your fingers and your palms)
- Use your first hand (your middle and index fingers) on her clitoris
- Make circular motions (keep consistent tempo) and apply steady pressure
- At the same time, your other hand will focus on her G-Spot
- Again, you will need your middle and index finger
- Insert them in her pussy and locate her G-spot (spongy tissue on her frontal vaginal wall)
- Once she is well wet and you have located this spot (spongy tissue), you can go for a come here motion
- Then you should lock your fingers in a “hook” position and thrust upwards (see the technique called Hook Overdrive above)
- Apply a firm pressure of your fingertips on – and all around her g-spot
Practice a lot and see her enjoying a simultaneous G-Spot and clitoral orgasms, that will often end with her cumming all around you.
TIP #5 – HAVE FUN & DO NOT FORCE IT
Guys, just realize that trying to learn this technique on your own will definitely take some time. Therefore, you will need a lot of patience, practice, and effort!
Just keep in mind:
It can take up to 1 hour of passionate sex with multiple orgasms until you can make your woman cum so hard she will squirt.
Even if you know all these tricks, she may still have problems for the first time!
Luckily, once she will go through this type of orgasm for the first time, getting the second one will be much easier. I want to point out that you should be proud of yourself because you now know how to make her scream over and over again from insane pleasure.
The best part? This skill will stay with you for the rest of your life.
Although this is rare, few women will not be able to ejaculate no matter how well you master these techniques. It is because they can not completely relax their minds and let loose.
EXTRA TIP #6 – USE SPECIAL SEX TOYS
There are few things you can use that will make everything easier. Some sex toys were made exactly for the stimulation of her G-Spot.
All you have to do is to get your hands on these:
- Vibrators with a special pulsation pattern such as GIGI 2 by Lelo.
- Specially designed dildos such as Pure Wand by Njoy.
If she rather likes smaller vibrators, you can use these to stimulate her clit while working on her G-spot with your fingers! In any case, these sex toys will certainly help you get your bed soaked with her liquids!